We have been back in Arkansas for about a month. We put Gray Ghost in hurricane hibernate mode and said goodbye to the Brunswick marina wildlife.
We loaded the dogs in the truck with a lot of the stuff we did not use this past season. There was seriously only enough room on the passenger side of the car for me to move my feet oh so slightly. The dogs were great sports about the whole thing, just as they have been during this whole adventure. And yes, I brought toilet paper home, but I also gave a lot of it away.
We stopped off in Germantown, TN to see my brother Phillip, sister-in-law Sarah Beth, and best friend Nikki. We got to my brother’s place at 12:47 AM, stayed up until at least 2:00 AM talking. Before we went to bed, he told us to get anything out that was valuable because even though he lives in a very nice neighborhood, the low life scum bags are still out and about. Sure enough, between 2:00 AM and 5:30 AM his truck was broken into. Luckily not anything of value was in the truck. Beware if you own a F150, the boys in the hood know how to jimmy the door handle to get into the truck without setting off the alarms. Apparently, there are You Tube videos out there on how to do this. Keep in mind our truck was loaded down with stuff, they were only interested in the F150. They probably thought our Yukon was a soccer mom car with stinky kids’ soccer clothes. Looking back at the surveillance tapes the thieves were packing guns as they were displayed clearly in their hands.
Once we were back home, we had to take care of maintenance issues that arose as a result of us being gone and mother nature being a cold-hearted bitch. Two pipes in the upstairs shower froze and busted. Bubba discovered this while he was home the previous week taking care of Skip’s personal effects. We called our friend Mike Pradmore who is a plumber to come out and get us fixed up again. A few busted tiles later we had the pipes fixed.
In addition to the shower being disabled the jacuzzi tub that was original to the house has also been removed. When Bubba was home the previous week, he removed the jacuzzi tub to see if the leak was coming from there. I have been wanting to replace the tub for some time, so this was the perfect opportunity. New tub has arrived just waiting for our friend Mile to be available to help us again with the plumbing part.
Since we have been home we haven’t spent much time on the lake. We have spent most of our time just getting the house and land back they way we want it. I have been busy taking Mom to her doctor appointments, taking her to the store and out to eat. She is not ready to drive yet, nor do I think she will probably drive again. She is still using the walker and due to it’s weight there is no way she could fold it up and get it into the back of the trunk of her car. I got new chairs for the fire pit. Bubba installed new cables on the boat dock and fixed railing on the boat dock that somehow came undone. Bubba collected up a pile of trees that floated into our cove and cleaned them up.
I did some blueberry picking at Rosete Family Farms. Organic, fresh bluberries are the best especially when you get to try them before you pick them off the tree.
We were invited out on the water with our neighbors Lisa and Jim one Sunday afternoon. It was good to be out on the water. Of all the years we have lived on this lake and tooted around the shoreline, we had never been back to War Eagle Cavern before. I am going to have to actually go in this thing this year. I have been to their store for work purposes only.
The dogs are enjoying being home. They both had their vet check up yesterday. Tess got a clean bill of health however Bulleit is going to need to have at least one tooth pulled.
Almost everyone asks me, so what’s next? This is a tough one. As much as I try to not allow life to get in the way of me doing the things that are important to me, I also recognize that I have responsibilities that I need to own. My brother Phillip did an outstanding job the last few months of taking care of my mom while she recovered from her broken hip. For two and half months he was here in Northwest Arkansas taking care of her instead of being at home in Germantown, TN.
We made the decision to not move Mom to TN because all of her doctors were here. At the time we left she could drive herself to her appts and to go shopping. Where we live is one of the safest places in the US as far as I am concerned. She lives in a gated apartment complex and has a garage, so I feel like she is in safe place.
Without going into all the details, it was a long 3 months of her recovery, and I can’t thank my best friend Cherie for all that she did for mama and Phillip during that time.
When we started this adventure, I always said this was something we wanted to do while we had our health and a little money. We are not rich by any stretch of the imagination. Thanks to our senile and corrupt President our wealth has dwindled even more. While we were on this adventure I have continued to work remotely. At times I found it hard to do as there was too much visual and noise distractions. Nonetheless anyone who was with us the last few months will tell you I put in my hours. In hindsight I should have quit and taken the time to fully enjoy the adventure. In the scheme of things, I have an easy job, I am paid well for what I do, I have a lot of flexibility. Unfortunately, the owner of my company said he can’t have me gone again for 10 months. We came to an arrangement of 4 weeks to work from wherever I chose plus my four weeks of vacation. It is a fair compromise but not enough time to devote to enjoying a sailboat.
After a lot of reflection, some alcoholic beverages, and time alone in the woods I decided the best option for where Bubba and I are at in life, our relationship and our family is to put the boat up for sale with Dennison Yachting and our friend Keith who originally sold us the boat when he worked for Leopard.
The first couple of weeks of transitioning to land were extremely difficult for me. Internally I fought with myself over this decision. Where I landed at it is if the boat sells by December than it was meant to be otherwise, we will take the 8 weeks that I have to be away from the office and go back out on the boat. I am leaving this in God’s hands.
There are a lot of things that I am going to miss, the people we met and shared life with the past 10 months.
First, Barnard Meyer who was the captain that taught me how to maneuver the Gray Ghost in tight, challenging quarters. If you ever need assistance getting your boat moved he is your guy!
Our Brunswick Landing crew: Bob and Anita, John and Sharon, Dale, Debbie, Dave and Ali, Michelle, Caila and Lucey, Nancy, Ian and Margaret, Phillip and Anita and Nancy. Special recognition to Brunswick Landing Marina team and Michael Torras for being so engaged and accommodating with the cruisers.
Our Georgetown crew: Bob, Cindy, Dean, Dennis, SV Harp, Rebecca, Jill, Christina and John, Chris and Sue, Francis and Vickey, Tiffany and Tom, Dave and Phyllis, Shelley and Dwight Amie and Scott, Nikki and Barry, Denise and Ryan, Becky and Joe and last but not least Petro and Frik (Bubba’s man crush).
Our boat buddies: David and Sarah and John and Tracey. The months we spent together making our way through the Bahamas will live with me forever. Your support during that time meant everything to me.
The things I am NOT going to miss is the anchor alarm, the wind, lightening, squalls, shallow water, and coming in and out of inlets on the Atlantic Ocean side.
Stay tuned as I plan to keep this blog updated with what is going on. In the meantime, enjoy your summer!